KAINIX is a paradigm shift—a reimagining of parenting as the alchemy of transformation. We’re disrupting intergenerational patterns that no longer serve us and learning how to parent our inner child so that future generations can thrive.

This is more than parenting—it’s magic in motion.

Hello! I'm gabriela starr—a wayfinder, guide, facilitator, and disruptor. I believe parenting isn’t just about raising children; it’s about tending to our own inner child, the one who shapes how we love, lead, and live. While my work centers parents and children, I firmly believe inner child healing is critical for everyone. The way we transform pain into wisdom and rupture into repair shapes not only our individual lives but the world we create and leave behind for future generations.

The Magic of Parent Alchemy

Reflect

Relationships — with ourselves and others — is a mirror. By turning inward with curiosity rather than judgment, we unlock the power to disrupt intergenerational cycles with intention.

Repair

Healing and parenting aren’t about perfection or fixing—they’re about connection and how we choose to show up. As we rewire our nervous systems from old patterns, we increase our capacity for attunement, nonviolent communication, safety, and radical joy.

Rise

Caring for our inner child and the people in our lives is an ongoing journey of evolution. The small, everyday choices we make ripple outward, shaping children, future generations, and society in profound ways.

  • “It is a great pleasure to work with Gabi as a parenting coach. She is incredibly insightful, intuitive, compassionate, and knowledgeable about parenting from an empowered and joyful place. As I prepare for motherhood, I feel much better equipped with proven tools and strategies to navigate the challenges of parenting throughout all the developmental stages of childhood. I can’t thank Gabi enough for giving the gift of empowered parenting!”

    Laura Lea N.

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“We Are Our Ancestors.
We Are Our Children.”

Thich Nhat Hanh